Read Matthew 6:31-33 – Put first the needs of God's kingdom, and being righteous.
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Being of value to the kingdom means putting first what the kingdom needs / values
What does the kingdom value?
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Read Luke 15:1-10, Mark 2:17
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The kingdom values souls – people saved and living obediently. To do this, build relationships like Jesus did.
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And as Matthew 6:33 reminds us, this means live obediently yourself also.
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In relationships:
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Read Matthew 19:13-15, Matthew 18:1-4 – For yourself, be teachable and seeking wisdom always, trusting the Word quickly like an innocent child.
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For others, be brutally honest like children are. And...
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Read Matthew 20:26-28 – Sacrifice what you value to put others first when needed, to help them follow Christ's ways.
Final scripture:
Read 2 Timothy 2:20-26
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Summary: To be useful to God, cleanse yourself from and flee sin, and hang out with others doing the same.
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Towards others in sin, don't argue, but correct them to help them repent.
Tying it all together:
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You have to be teachable (always asking questions) like a child to do this.
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Then sacrifice your time to serve others by building relationships.
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Be brutally honest with those friends to help them repent and obey God.
Important Clarification — Everyone Has a Role in the Kingdom
Being valuable to the kingdom does NOT mean everyone must become an evangelist or build a public ministry.
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The kingdom and the Son being glorfied in all things is what God values.
2 Corinthians 5:20
“We are ambassadors for Christ...”
Every Christian represents the kingdom through the way they live. Living honorably matters for bringing glory to the kingdom. Read 1 Peter 2:12.
You honor God when you:
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work diligently,
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become financially responsible,
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keep your word,
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honor your spouse,
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submit to biblical roles in marriage,
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raise your children well,
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stay disciplined,
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care for your health,
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strengthen your body,
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and live a stable, obedient life.
These things matter because they reflect God’s order and character. A chaotic, lazy, undisciplined life poorly represents the kingdom.
People watch how you live.
Your everyday life is ministry. Not everyone will stand behind a pulpit — but every Christian is called to represent the King well.

