Characteristics of a Godly Woman
1. Noble Character
Proverbs 31:10
"A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies."
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Understand that it is a very valuable thing to be a woman that obeys the Word.
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Reflect on your character and identify specific areas where you can grow.
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Surround yourself with friends who exemplify noble character traits and can inspire you to do better.
2. Trustworthiness
Proverbs 31:11
"Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value."
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Always speak gently and with self control to your spouse.
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Be reliable in your commitments and responsibilities. Do what you say.
3. Submission
Ephesians 5:22 - 1 Peter 3, Col 3, 1 Cor 11
"Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord.”
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Obey your husband’s decisions and honor him greatly.
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Ask your husband how you can submit to him or show more honor, then do those things.
4. Benevolence
Proverbs 31:12
"She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life."
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Actively seek opportunities to be selfless and serve your spouse/family.
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Do not talk back to your spouse or cause arguments, do only good to him.
5. Diligence
Proverbs 31:13
"She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands."
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Take initiative in household tasks and projects.
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Approach work with enthusiasm and commitment.
6. Resourcefulness
Proverbs 31:14
"She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar."
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Plan meals in advance and shop strategically for quality, affordable ingredients.
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Compare prices and visit different stores to find the best deals.
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Explore a variety of recipes to provide nutritious meals for your family.
7. Proactive Care
Proverbs 31:15
"She gets up while it is still night; she provides food for her family and portions for her female servants."
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Establish a morning routine to prepare for the day ahead.
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Meal prep to ensure your family is well-fed and ready for the day.
8. Financial Savvy
Proverbs 31:16
"She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard."
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Educate yourself on budgeting and investments/work opportunities.
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Make thoughtful decisions regarding financial purchases.
9. Strength and Vigor
Proverbs 31:17
"She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks."
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Engage in regular body weight or dumbbell workouts to build strength.
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Plan and set goals for completing tasks efficiently.
10. Wise Stewardship
Proverbs 31:18
"She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night."
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Monitor household expenses and look for savings opportunities.
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Stay committed to tasks until they are completed.
11. Compassion
Proverbs 31:20
"She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy."
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Be open to helping others where needed.
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Foster an attitude of generosity in your family, as well as hospitality to others.
12. Preparedness
Proverbs 31:21
"When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet."
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Plan ahead for seasonal changes and emergencies.
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Ensure your family has the necessary supplies for various situations.
13. Creativity
Proverbs 31:22
"She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple."
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Explore hobbies that allow for creativity, such as sewing or crafting.
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Invest in clothing that looks nice and take time to care for your clothing and linens, ensuring they are well-maintained and last longer.
14. Respectability
Proverbs 31:23
"Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land."
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Speak positively about your spouse to others.
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Know your spouses’ goals and help him achieve them.
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Maintain a well-run household, ensuring that responsibilities are handled, allowing your husband the time and space to focus on his work.
15. Entrepreneurial Spirit
Proverbs 31:24
"She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes."
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Consider starting a small business or side project that interests you.
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Look for opportunities to monetize your skills or hobbies.
16. Strength and Dignity
Proverbs 31:25
"She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come."
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Cultivate a positive mindset by focusing on gratitude and the good in every situation.
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Practice resilience by facing challenges with confidence and adaptability.
17. Wisdom and Instruction
Proverbs 31:26
"She speaks with wisdom, and on her tongue is the law of kindness."
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Read the Word and learn to increase your knowledge and wisdom.
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Learn to speak with kindness and gentleness no matter the situation.
18. Vigilance
Proverbs 31:27
"She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness."
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Stay organized and involved in managing your household.
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Avoid procrastination by setting clear priorities.
19. Blessed Influence
Proverbs 31:28
"Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her."
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Foster strong, loving relationships with your children and spouse.
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Set a great example of obedience to God for your household.
20. Fear of the Lord
Proverbs 31:30
"Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised."
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Cultivate a personal relationship with God through prayer and study.
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Continue in repentance, turn away from sin by following convictions.
21. Recognition and Honor
Proverbs 31:31
"Honor her for all that her hands have done, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate."
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Let your actions speak for you. When you live a godly life, it will be evident.
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Don’t seek out recognition or praise from your spouse or others.
These action steps can help embody the characteristics of a godly woman in daily life, fostering growth in character and influence, all to bring God glory!